Create an invite

Invitations for every kind of gathering

Pick what you are hosting. Each page has the builder at the top with the date and theme already filled in, plus wording you can lift and the logistics that usually go wrong.

Pick the occasion, not the template

Every page below opens with the builder already set for that kind of event: a real date for the holiday, a start time people actually turn up at, the theme that suits it, and a bring list seeded with the things that usually get forgotten. You change what you want and ignore the rest.

The reason this matters is that the fields you skip are the fields guests ask about later. A Thanksgiving invitation without a time zone generates four messages from people driving in. A kids party without an allergy line generates a phone call from every parent. The occasion pages fill those in so you do not have to remember them at eight in the evening.

When to send it

Send a casual weeknight thing three to five days out and you will get a better reply rate than sending it three weeks out, because nobody plans a Tuesday in advance and nobody remembers an invitation they read a fortnight ago. Anything that needs a babysitter, a drive or a day off needs more notice.

  • Weeknight dinner or game night: 4 to 7 days.
  • Weekend party or birthday: 2 to 3 weeks.
  • Thanksgiving or Friendsgiving: 3 to 4 weeks, because people are choosing between two tables.
  • Christmas or office party in December: 4 to 6 weeks. December fills up by the middle of November.
  • New Year's Eve: 4 weeks, and expect a third of replies in the last three days.
  • Baby or bridal shower: 4 to 6 weeks, longer if guests are flying.

What to do with the two links

The guest link goes in the group chat, the family thread, the team channel, or on a printed card as a QR code. The organiser link is the one that edits the event, reads the dietary notes and exports the replies, so keep it somewhere you will find it: pinned note, saved message to yourself, downloaded text file.

If the headcount matters for food, check the organiser page the day before and export the CSV. It counts heads rather than replies, so a yes with two plus-ones shows as three.